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Suicide

How to Help
 

There are a few different levels of responding that you may need to practice as a friend, colleague, or shipmate.

They all begin with communication!  Listening and asking!

If you are concerned that a shipmate or friend may be thinking about suicide.... talk.

  • Be direct.
  • Talk openly and matter-of-factly about suicide and your concern.
  • Be willing to listen.
  • Let the feelings come out and accept them.
  • Be non-judgmental.
  • Don’t get into a debate about whether suicide is right or wrong, or feelings are good or bad.

It is also important to act.  You have to do something.

  • Get involved
  • Be available
  • Set aside uninterrupted time
  • Show interest and support

Here are some additional things to keep in mind while looking after your shipmate:

  • Don't leave your shipmate alone.
  • Don’t dare your shipmate to do it.
  • Don’t act shocked. This will put distance between you and your shipmate.
  • Don’t swear to keep it a secret. You may need to get help.
  • Offer hope that alternatives are available but do not offer glib reassurance.
  • Remove methods if you can, such as guns or pills.
  • Get help from MDC, a chaplain or the chain of command.
  • See our page about emergencies.

 

The Facts

Suicide Basics
College Age Suicide
Depression and Suicide
Alcohol and Suicide
Race and Suicide
Gender and Suicide
Common Myths Debunked

Seeing It

Warning Signs
Risk Factors
Feelings/Thoughts/Behaviors
 

 

Main Suicide Page

Prevention

How to Help
The Navy Model - AID LIFE
USNA/MDC Resources
Navy/Marine Corps Links
AFSP Teen Prevention Videos
Other Resources

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8th Wing Mezzanine
Seaward Ladder

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